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10 things i’d do differently next time I have a baby

No I am definitely not broody…well don’t ask me that question if I am around cute, little newborns or Mole is having a good day.?But… I was thinking about what…

No I am definitely not broody…well don’t ask me that question if I am around cute, little newborns or Mole is having a good day.?But… I was thinking about what I would do differently next time I have a baby. I wonder if you also would do the same or have experienced the same feelings as me?

This post will also be helpful for a new mum-to-be, getting some advice from a mum that had no clue at first and has learnt a lot from her mistakes!

1. Have my mum present during labour

Now I know I am only at number 1 and already doing this wrong as I did have my mum present during labour with Mole, but, I’d 100% make sure she was again. There is just something calming about having your mother there. Maybe it is because she has been through it before and can give you advice or maybe its helpful because everyone needs their mummy sometimes. Comment below if you had any parents present?

2. I will not put pressure on myself to breastfeed

Sure I will give it a go, just like I did with Mole and if it doesn’t work out I promise myself not to lose sleep over it. Mole has coped just fine on formula and it has been very easy with bottle feeding and working out a routine.

3. Get sleep before visitors!

This is a huge one for me. As soon as you have a new baby you are in a whirlwind and surviving off adrenaline and coffee. I am so grateful for all visitors, taking time out of their lives to see my baby and making sure we are all well, but, it completely floored me. I think next time I will wait a week before allowing visitors so I can get settled…or I will make them make their own drinks so I don’t have to keep getting up and going through the pain of my burning stitches sitting back down. Sorry not sorry.

4. Be more open with Baby Blues

I am so guilty of always painting a smile on my face and pretending i’m all good and next time I will not allow myself to do this. Its far too draining. I will be honest and ask for help when I need it and not try to cope on my own.

5. I will not listen to every single piece of advice

Some advice is definitely helpful however, I tried to take on board everyone’s advice and it didn’t work for me. I will learn as I go and make my own mistakes to learn from. Next time I will be more confident to trust my own instinct. This includes getting into my own routine and not follow someone else’s.

6.Take more photos!

I have no photographs of Mole right after I gave birth to her. I have some from a while later but I would love to see more from right when she came into the world. I think it would be incredible to see.

7. Not rush into decorating the nursery

When I was pregnant I had the whole room finished as I felt an urge to rush it all. When in reality the baby doesn’t even sleep in there for 6 months. I wish I took the time to plan out the nursery and not jump straight into the first style I had in mind.

8. Use a dummy straight away

I was told not to use a dummy because it can confuse the baby when they come to breastfeed. Mole loves her dummy as a comforter and it has saved us in so many situations where she has got herself worked up and the dummy has helped to calm her down. I wish I would have gave it to her sooner and saved some public meltdowns.

9. Save up

Next time around I’m going to try and put more money behind me so I can have longer off work and really cherish the moment of being able to spend it with raising my baby. I hate the fact that money controls how much time I will have off with Mole. I’d love to have longer as it is going by far too quickly now.

10. Not stress about getting my pre baby body back

I went to the gym just 2 weeks after giving birth. I was so disgusted with how I looked and I would slog myself at the gym to try and feel like the old me again. Although I have controlled what I eat to an extent and I have been active, your body does just go back over time. I will not go crazy trying to fit into my old jeans until I am truly ready and after more sleep.

I’m sure there are probably 100’s of things I will do differently next time around but these stuck out for me. What about you? Do any of these sound similar to you or would you change other things? Let me know in the comments 🙂

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Top Tips For a Teething Baby

Mole is teething. It is horrendous. Mainly because i’m sad?that i’m not going to see her gummy smile for much longer 🙁 We both got hit hard with the 4…

Mole is teething. It is horrendous. Mainly because i’m sad?that i’m not going to see her gummy smile for much longer 🙁

We both got hit hard with the 4 month sleep regression and now this :'( TEETHING.

As Mole is my first baby I have no previous experience with a teething baby. I didn’t even know for sure whether what Mole was going through is down to teething until I found myself yet again on Google checking all her symptoms fearing for the worst.

8 Teething Symptoms

Mole has no teeth so far and I was unsure that she was teething because at 4 months old babies do a lot of exploring and learning with their mouth and she has always been one to chew her toys. I had to look out for other symptoms to be sure before I started on any pain killers for no reason.

  • Drooling a lot:?I use the word drool as it sounds a lot more severe than dribble. It is so bad some days that I am beginning to think my little Mole is turning into a dog! Her clothes are soaked so we have invested in some cute dribble bibs. I like these ones because they are pink and do the job:?https://amzn.to/2P5Y3Rd
  • Chewing on her hands:?Scary really because she chews on her fingers that much I am surprised there is anything left of them. If she is not chewing on her own fingers then she is grabbing mine!
  • Flushed Cheeks: This one was difficult for me to notice as we had just come back off holiday and Mole had a cheeky tan. A few weeks later now we are back and the tan has gone I can see her cheeks get flushed when she is on a chewing frenzy.
  • Rubbing her face: This is one of Mole’s symptoms for when she is tired so it was a harder one to spot for teething but she has definitely started rubbing at her face in an agitated way. I have to keep checking her nails are super short so she doesn’t scratch herself.
  • Trouble sleeping: 🙁 🙁 🙁 when you just get out of the 4 month sleep regression and then get hit with this one. She really can not sleep with her teething troubles. Her naps during the day have decreased and at night she is waking up almost hourly again and when she is awake she finds it so hard to fall back to sleep again. Coffee is my best friend right now.
  • Saying NO to food: Mole is a bottle guzzler. Theres no question about it. However, She has recently started pushing the bottle away out of her mouth yet at the same time crying because she is hungry. On the other hand some days are different, which leads me onto my next point.
  • Comfort eating: If she is not pushing the bottle out of her mouth in a temper tantrum she is comfort eating. She will have her bottle even when she is not really hungry or she will have her bottle as a method to fall back to sleep. I may be in the wrong allowing myself to comfort feed my baby but when it is 3:30 in the morning and you have been up 4 times all ready, you pretty much do anything for them to fall back to sleep.
  • I have saved the best till last. Symptom number 8: Explosive poo’s! You know the kind that go up the back and through to their best clothes. TMI. But it is related.

“My mother always told me that teeth are a pain coming and going.”

6 Tips helping Mole through teething

From the second I realised Mole was teething I began to research and ask other mums what they have found to have been the best methods to help relieve their baby’s teething pain. Here are my top tips for teething that have worked for us:

  • Calpol: It is a shame this heavenly stuff doesn’t come on a drip. Now, I am the type of person who won’t take a paracetamol even if my leg is falling off, I’m just not into putting lot’s of medicine into your body if you can really get through it without it if you know what I mean. So I was reluctant to give Mole Calpol but she really needed it. Teething can be so painful for them and they are really not themselves whilst going through teething. Calpol helps to relieve her pain and I notice a big difference in her mood 15 minutes later. Giving my baby paracetamol has helped to bring Mole’s temperature down. Especially at night when she has trouble sleeping due to her pain, it has given her the chance to get her head down for a couple of hours pain free.
  • A good teether: In my opinion I have found the best teether on the market. Matchstick Monkey. They are FDA approved and BPA free. Mole only has a little mouth and so many teethers we have tried in the past haven’t worked because they are too big for her to chew, or she just gets fed up by the sight of them, but, Matchstick monkey teethers are small enough for her to hold and chew and the luminous colour catches her eye. On one side of the teether there are little bumps and she loves the texture. This side of the teether can also act as a toothbrush or an applicator for applying teething gel. There are a variety of colours of the cute little monkey’s so you can pick your favourite! I am a bit funny with making sure Mole’s dummy’s and her teether’s are clean. In the past I have put teethers in the dishwasher and they have come out stuck together and completely ruined. Matchstick Monkey’s are dishwasher safe and you can even put them in the freezer to relieve pain for your baby. Can you tell how much I love them? https://pinkmole.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/img_3808.mov
  • Letting Mole rest: I’m always up and about going places with her, whether it is attending a baby class or going shopping. I have learnt that whilst she is going through this pain just to let her rest at home. We are both not sleeping much during the night so it is just a recipe for disaster forcing ourselves to do physical activities together. Whilst she have been catching up on her sleep during the day it has given me the chance to enjoy my home and have a good chill out too. All the stuff you dream about whilst your in work.https://pinkmole.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/img_4010.mov
  • Pack extra nappies and a change of clothes: As I mentioned before one of Mole’s symptoms have been her bottom. Now I have come to terms with excepting its going to be part of my day dealing with this and getting myself prepared for the inevitable, I have coped much easier. Let’s face it, you have just spent what little money you have from your maternity pay on the cutest outfit ever for your baby and then they go all chicken korma on you. It will test your patience. Especially if you’re out without a spare change of clothes for them. 😮 .
  • Teething Gel: Mole is currently having Dentinox Teething Gel. I use a clean finger or rub it over her Matchstick Monkey to apply it to her gums. So far it can ease her pain for around 20 minutes and then you are allowed to apply more. I also believe that the taste of the teething gel distracts her from the pain for a short while too. Using the teething gel alone, has not been the best solution to completely stopping her pain, but it has helped to comfort her just a little and as Tesco would say “every little helps”?;) .
  • I have saved the best tip till last 😀 … Lot’s of cuddles and kisses!!!!! Mole has been extra clingy whilst teething and secretly I am loving this side of her. I have been having daytime bed cuddles with her, cuddling her whilst watching Baby TV (her favourite) and holding her hand whilst out and about. There is no medicine out there like mummy’s cuddle medicine.

I hope you find some of the tips here useful!

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Mole at 4 Months Old

Hello Everyone! Here to give you a Mole update I CAN NOT BELIEVE SHE IS 4 MONTHS OLD!? Where did that time go???? You hear it all the time… “They…

Hello Everyone!

Here to give you a Mole update

I CAN NOT BELIEVE SHE IS 4 MONTHS OLD!? Where did that time go???? You hear it all the time… “They grow so quick”, “they change so quick”, “Make the most of them being a baby”… Everyone was so right and now I have found myself jumping on the bandwagon with the sayings.

This fourth month has been the best by far. I feel our bond is so much stronger and tighter than ever. This is also the month where I have seen the most change with her.

Little Miss Roly Poly

Mole’s favourite thing to do is to play on her play mat, I always lay her down on her back, the next second she just rolled on to her belly! She did it so fast as well I couldn’t believe it 😀 .It has got to the point now where Mole with keep rolling every time she is on her back so I now have to make sure everywhere is fully safe and watch her when I can. It’s not so fun when she decides to keep rolling when I am putting her to sleep in her SnuzPod. I didn’t think there would even be enough room but apparently there is! I have even woke up in the middle of the night and noticed she has rolled.

Mrs Roly Poly can keep her head up for a good while whilst on her front now but after a good 5-10 minutes she starts to tire and I can hear “eh, eeeeh, arr, arghhh, EEHHARGH” coming from her little mouth. She gets so frustrated when she is tired and can’t figure out to roll back over.

Little Miss Greedy

Mole now gets a bowl of Hipp Organic Baby Rice before bed. I know she is ready to start weaning as I am constantly holding a bottle to her mouth. I have choose to wean her gradually as she is only 4 months and I believe the recommendation is 6 months. So far so good. Mole loves her baby rice and she gets so excited when she sees her bowl. Her mouth is open and her legs are kicking everywhere. 😀

Little Miss Chatterbox

I think this is by far one of Mole’s favourite past times. She will literally just lie there gurgling away. It is crazy because I still see her as a little baby and I can’t believe she will have a back and forth conversation. Sure its just gargling but I understand her 🙂 .

For some reason she turns into the biggest Little Miss Chatterbox right before bedtime. It is like she is almost trying to convince me she isn’t tired enough for bed yet haha.

Little Miss Giggles

Along with making different noises I heard her first real, proper, kind of adult like laugh!!! She has only done this the once so far and I have spent every day since doing goodness knows what to get her to do it again. She has her usual giggle noises especially when I tickle her but this laugh she did was so different. It genuinely was one of the best moments of my life hearing it.

Little Miss Sleepy

The 4 month sleep regression has hit us hard. Yes me too, what is sleep??I can put her to bed and she look fast asleep, next minute I am up and down the stairs for her every 40 minutes. Any tips??? When Mole does finally go to sleep it is for two hours then she needs feeding again. She has also become really clingy where she wants to hold my hand until she falls asleep. I know I shouldn’t give in but I cant help think to myself that she will be asleep in 10 minutes if I let her do it. She already has me wrapped around her little finger.

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My Favourite Baby Bath Time Products For Sensitive Skin

Like all mums with a baby, you try to establish a night time routine quickly, in the hope it eases them into a good night sleep. My routine consisted of…

Like all mums with a baby, you try to establish a night time routine quickly, in the hope it eases them into a good night sleep. My routine consisted of the usual bath, massage, bottle and bed but, little did I know the products I was using on Mole were making her skin sore 🙁 .

Wrong products irritating sensitive skin

Mole was over due by a few days when she was finally born which resulted in her skin being dry and flakey. I bought bath time products that claimed to clean and moisturise her skin whilst also giving her a good night sleep. Win win.?

Every night I would use the products all from the same brand. I would run the bath, adding bubble bath, washing her skin with the body wash, hair with the shampoo and then moisturising her skin afterwards with the body oil. Then I started to notice red bumps forming on her skin.

“I started to notice read bumps forming on her skin”

The products I was using were from a well known reputable brand so it didn’t come to me that her skin was acting up from bath time, I assumed it was her milk and the washing powder I washed her clothes in.

A few baths later her skin continued to get worse :(? within an hour, her skin flared up so much I had to to take a trip to A&E to make sure it was nothing serious.

“We had to take a trip to A&E”

 

The doctor explained that it is more than like to have been the products I was using in the bath and in future I need to stick to very mild bath time products.

The doctor prescribed?Ovelle emulsifying ointment to give her skin a boost of moisture. Nothing changed and the cream was a nightmare for being too greasy making Mole feel like she was one of the hash browns from McDonalds 🙁 . There was no change in her skin condition either.

Back at square one I was researching the best products for sensitive skin and I came across Childs Farm.

Childs Farm

Childs Farm products are incredible. I am able to bath Mole every night as part of her bed time routine now without her skin becoming dry and damaged.

Not only are Childs Farm products perfect for sensitive skin, they smell amazing too! Strawberry and Organic Mint smelling shampoo makes Mole’s hair smell like a yummy bubblegum 😀 . Did I mention they are budget friendly too?

“I am able to bath Mole every night as part of her bed time routine now without her skin becoming dry and damaged”

Childs Farm Promise

The Childs Farm promise makes me feel more at ease with knowing 100% that the products are safe on sensitive skin:

  • Dermatologist and paediatrician approved as suitable for sensitive and also eczema-prone skin
  • ?Suitable for?newborns and upwards
  • ?Contains naturally derived ingredients
  • ?Made with organic essential oils
  • ?Never tested on animals, only on people
  • ?Tested and approved by my little ones for you to use on yours.

 

Clear Skin

Mole’s skin is now perfect and she has that baby soft feel to her skin its just like silk. I never thought I would be able to stop using prescription creams from the doctors on her but I truly believe Childs Farm products have helped her skin to be the best it has ever been.

Mole loves bath time now, especially because she gets a calming massage?afterwards with the moisturiser 🙂 .

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What you didn’t know about your baby’s feet that can relax a crying or fussy baby

  According to reflexology experts, massaging your baby’s feet in specific areas can settle an upset or fussy baby. Reflexology is a natural pain relief that is done by massaging…

 

According to reflexology experts, massaging your baby’s feet in specific areas can settle an upset or fussy baby.

Reflexology is a natural pain relief that is done by massaging pressure points throughout the body to relieve pain.

Sounds crazy right? Like how can a massage on the feet calm my baby down? Won’t it just agitate my baby more?

I came across this idea when I was researching different ways to help Molly’s reflux and noticed that when she was having a fussy day or she was crying more than usual and nothing I normally do to try and soothe her worked, this method had an immediate impact.

For it to work, I bathed Molly first. This is one of her usual ways she likes to calm down. The warm water encourages blood flow to her feet which makes the massage more effective.

Different points in the foot work for different areas of your baby’s body. If your baby has trouble with a specific area, then you can focus your massage on that area. It may take a few tries to get use to it but keep at it! Trust me.

Pelvis

Babies grow at an unbelievable rate! You know yourself, you look at them one day and the next they have doubled in size. Growing at a fast rate can cause pain in their hips as some areas of their body grows quicker than other areas.

To solve this problem: Rub your baby’s heel.

Rubbing the heel area can help babies if they suffer from upset stomachs or constipation too.

Upper and Lower Abdomen Pain

Massaging the space in the middle of your baby’s foot and the pads of their feet can help problems with heartburn, indigestion and constipation.

Massaging the middle of the foot and heel will help problems with bloating and painful gas.

Stomach Pain

Massaging the center of the foot just below the pads of the feet where the arch begins will help to solve the problem of upset tummies, tightness and spasms.

How can massaging the middle of a foot help with stomach pain I asked myself?

Well, the center of the foot is a direct link to a collection of nerves between the lungs and stomach called the Solar Plexus.

Chest

Massaging the pad area below your baby’s toes and above the arch can help with congestion in the chest and coughing problems.

Apply a gentle pressure and massage in a circular motion for this to work.

Sinus Pain

We all know how horrible Sinus pain is, well that is if you have suffered from it before. Imagine how a baby feels when suffering from Sinus pain when they are new to the world and have never experienced anything like it before. 🙁

To help, apply a gentle pressure and massage the center underside of your baby’s toes. Instant relief 🙂

Tooth Ache

Saving the best till last. Massaging the very tips of your baby’s toes can help to ease the pain of tooth ache. When your baby is teething you feel helpless in being able to cure their pain. You give them Calpol but sometimes it is nice to have a natural pain relief remedy for teething babies.

Massaging the tips of their toes can help to distract your baby from the pain too and the massage can even be done when your baby is asleep.

Always remember, serious issues with your baby need to be consulted by your doctor. Reflexology is a great way to help with everyday issues and bond with your baby. Give them a go and see how they feel 🙂

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Baby Sensory Class: An honest review

I’m not the type of person that likes to stay in the house all day.? After? I gave birth to Mole, one of my goals was to be able to…

I’m not the type of person that likes to stay in the house all day.? After? I gave birth to Mole, one of my goals was to be able to leave the house as it helps to break the day up and I don’t go crazy. I soon got bored of going food shopping or pushing the pram up and down the street so I asked my Health Visitor about local baby classes.

Here was her list along with my thoughts:

  • Baby Massage.?Mole lay on her back? Bad idea…Thanks reflux.
  • Baby Yoga.?Not really in the relaxing yogary mood.
  • Messy Play.?Had to be 3 months old and there was a waiting list.
  • Dancing Tots.?Babies had to be crawling.
  • Little Athletes.?Too young, babies had to be able to run,
  • Musical Babies. Mole is musical?enough with her constant cry.
  • Baby Sensory. No idea what this is, no current thoughts persuading me not to go. Let’s give it a try.

It was the best decision I could have made.

When I became pregnant with Mole, I moved from Manchester to Stoke. Even though my family and friends are only 2 hours away, I felt like I had moved to Australia. I was mourning my life before I had a baby. I was so selfish: I would go to the gym when I wanted, shopping when I wanted, I would eat when I wanted and even lie down on the couch all day scoffing Jaffa Cakes, watching repeats of the Kardashians on E! when I had watched the same episodes a dozen times, probably even the day before.?I felt like I could not do much with a newborn or more to the point, I was not sure what I was allowed to do with a newborn. The health visitor and midwife made it clear to me that even putting your baby in a pram can result in cot death.

How did the class help?

I was super hesitant in attending the class. As with every new thing in life I have to do.?But it really did change my whole outlook on motherhood. Baby sensory strengthened mine and Moles bond. Watching her interact for the first time with toys, sounds and lights filled me with so much joy. I couldn’t believe how proud I was of her for doing the smallest thing like holding a rattle. To be honest, I have more fun there than she does sometimes!

As Mole was young, the class helped me to structure my day by making sure I was awake and out of the house for a certain time. I began to notice my days going to baby sensory were easier than days spent in the house all day. I developed a day time feeding routine and soon after, Mole’s naps linked in, preparing meals linked in, doing the washing linked in. Everything fell into place and I was the happiest mother out there.

What age can your baby attend?

Mole was 8 weeks when she first joined her class and I thought she had to be much older before she was allowed as she did not have all her injections done. Babies can attend Baby Sensory from any age! There was a baby, Oscar, attending at just 3 weeks. Props to his mummy!

What does the class involve?

The class itself stimulates babies with various objects for them to touch, shake and look at. We sing lot’s of songs that the babies love to hear. At Baby Sensory we repeat two songs every week at the start and end of the session so the babies really get use to listening to it and most babies recognise it now when it comes on.

As Mole was only 8 weeks when she first joined Baby Sensory, I was so surprised at how much she interacted with everyone and all of the sensory play toys. I was so use to her at home sleeping most of the day and sitting in her bouncer that I had no idea how even at a young age she could still interact. She must have been so bored 😮 !? I went straight to Mothercare after her first class and spoilt Mole with tonnes of sensory toys to play with and the Baby Sensory play-mat.

Every class each week is different and never repeated. We have done all sorts from Pirate Parties to a Royal Wedding themed party but Mole’s favourite had to be the Cowboy Party where she got to sit on Rody the inflatable bouncing horse.?She let out the most biggest burps possible bouncing up and down on the horse.

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No more tears: Tips For Travelling on a Plane with a Baby

Get your holiday off to a stress free start when travelling on a plane with a baby!   You have to first admit to yourself that travelling with a baby…

Get your holiday off to a stress free start when travelling on a plane with a baby!

 

You have to first admit to yourself that travelling with a baby is going to be harder than travelling solo. You can not predict or control everything that is going to happen.

What you can do is make what you can control easier on yourself by being prepared. Preparation is key.

Timing

The one time it is not okay to be fashionably late. Especially with a baby I can tell you from experience arriving at the very last minute adds more stress than you thought possible to the whole process.

I was frantically running from check in then to specialist luggage to drop the car seat off and then to security whilst holding a bottle feeding my baby and pushing the pram. Give yourself plenty of time. You will be able to change your babies nappy, grab a drink and walk casually to your gate rather than sprinting like its the finish line.

 

Milk

Make sure you have all of your baby’s milk to hand. If you are not breastfeeding you can prepare your bottles before you board the flight. I got ready made formula bottles ready as soon as we hit the airport. You can order? your formula at the airport from Boots so you can avoid taking up more space in your luggage. You don’t need to worry if you can take your baby’s bottles through security. Anything for a baby can be allowed through, from my experience.

Soothers

Take any soothers your baby loves with you in your hand luggage so you can grab them straight away. A dummy is great for when the air pressure changes on the plane and can make your baby cry. It is like us chewing gum 🙂 .

Mole loves her favourite pink blanket. As soon as the fabric touches her cheeks she settles straight away. You could try their favourite blanket or teddy if your baby doesn’t take to a dummy.

Toys

This one goes with out saying, long plane journeys are boring for us so obviously a baby will become bored and need entertaining. Pack their favourite toy in your hand luggage to keep them occupied.

You could even try wrapping up toys and your baby has to unwrap them. We know how much babies like to play with paper right? The extra time a baby takes to unwrap their toy, will buy you some quiet time 🙂

Travel Pillow

Planes are very uncomfortable. It is hard to make your baby comfortable in such a small space. I took a travel pillow on board with the intentions of myself using it however, I soon ended up placing Mole on it so she had somewhere comfortable to lay down.

Book your seats

Booking your seats will ensure that whoever you are travelling with can sit together. This makes it ten times easier to keep your baby and even you settled as you can take turns in holding your baby giving you a little break too. It helps when you want to reach for something in your bag or order food or a drink.

Take your pram on board

I check my car seat in at the specials luggage check in so I do not have to carry it around. Then I keep the pram with me right up until we board the plane. This is fantastic as you probably have your own luggage to carry around and it will make it ten times harder to do that whilst holding your baby, unless you prefer a sling.

Pack extra nappies and a cosy outfit

You want your baby when travelling on a plane to be comfortable. Make sure before you board the plane you have changed their nappy so they feel fresh. I always put Mole in a cosy sleep suit so she is very warm on the air conditioned plane.

Dressing your baby in a sleep suit helps to save time when you are changing their nappy as you do not have a complicated outfit to undress and then put back on them.

 

Don’t be afraid to walk up and down the plane

Walking up and down with your baby on a plane when they are unsettled will help to give them a change of scenery and distract them. Walking will give you a chance to stretch your legs a bit too.

Preparation is Key

If you prepare and have everything to have in your hand luggage your journey will be easier. Remember that if you do have a really bad journey, they are only babies and you won’t have to come across the people on your flight ever again 🙂

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What’s in a name: A Guide to choosing the perfect baby name

Being a parent is full of tough of decisions and you even have to face one very, important decision before or as soon as your baby is born. Naming your…

Being a parent is full of tough of decisions and you even have to face one very, important decision before or as soon as your baby is born. Naming your baby.

How to decide what is the best name for your baby when you haven’t even met your baby yet? You may even become overwhelmed with suggestions from relatives and friends or love more than one name and you just can’t pick between them.

I can remember before we set on the name Molly, I had tonnes of different names I liked. At one point I wanted to call her Zara …?not sure if that had anything to do with my favourite shop lol.?

I must have downloaded every Baby Name App possible and spent my time scanning through the top names and when that wasn’t enough, I began to search for the top baby names with happy meanings or the top floral baby names. Oh I miss how much free time I had when I was pregnant.

The hard part is that you might have had your heart set on a name for years. As a child I remember discussing with my friends what we wanted to call our babies and now all of a sudden that name is taken away from you because your partner or mother-in-law hates it. For me this happened with the name River. Yes its unusual but, I just love it so I am going to try again in getting my way when I have another baby. I am stubborn 🙂 .

Its all the hype what celebrities are naming their babies. We wait anxiously for them to reveal their babies names and then talk non stop about it for days afterwards with friends. I am even guilty of religiously watching E News! to find out what the Kardashians have named their babies. And for the record, no one can ever say a bad word about them to me, I love all of their babies names with True and North being my favourite names.

Let’s take choosing a babies name seriously now. I have came up with a few questions below that you actually need to consider. Once that name has been registered, it is very difficult to go back.

Will the name suit your baby when they are an adult?

Many names can be very cute and adorable for babies however, do they age well? By that I mean, will the name still be suitable when they are much older? Can the name be used in a professional situation? Can you imagine them being called the name at a boardroom meeting or as a head teacher for example? Names like Teddy couldn’t be any cuter for a baby boy but, Ted is more suitable for an adult?

Embarrassing nicknames?

Can the name easily lead to an embarrassing nickname? The last thing you want is for when your baby is old enough to attend school, they get taunted in class for their name. You may even know someone that had an embarrassing nickname growing up and you would not want that to be your child. You can start to rhyme your intended name with common words first to see if any embarrassing nicknames come to your head. Examples: Silly Billy, Smelly Kelly, Bart Fart.

Does the name suit your intended surname?

This is a big point. Maybe I should have moved this to number one??I can not begin to tell you how many children I have come across in my line of work where I have had to double check that is their name, as when paired with their surname it just does not work. 😮 Let me give you some examples and I doubt you will need a further explanation…Richard Felt, Ben Dover, Neil Downs.

Funny initial names

Along with my previous point, surnames can play havoc too with the initials. You may want to spend a thought on what will the initials spell out when I name my baby? Why is this important? Well you may use your initials on your luggage tag or scholarly papers. Here are some funny examples…Chris Orson Williams (COW), Frankie Mark Lawson (FML), Lewis Oliver Laing (LOL).

Uniqueness?

Is your baby name unique or when your baby gets to school are you going to have another 5 students in the class with the same name as your child? You can check how popular your name is by searching for the most popular names in your current year. Whilst searching for a unique name you may want to consider is it too unique? Will people be able to pronounce the name? Are there too many different versions of spelling? Or have you made a popular name unique by changing the spelling? In that case are you going to be constantly checking people will the correct spelling?

What is right for you.

At the end of the day it is completely up to you. If you like the sound of the name and you can imagine your son or daughter with that name then go for it! You may even have deep significance with then name and your connection to the name is too strong to even care what the initials spell out to be.

Its completely normal to change your mind on the baby’s name 5000 times before you finally decide. You probably will end up going back to the first one you picked and then you have to see if you and your other half both agree on it 😀

Once you are settled on a name you can even start to shop for personalised clothing or nursery decorations for your baby. You can start referring to your bump as the baby’s name which can help with bonding.

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Introducing Molly Mole

Molly? (Mole)   Born on 26th March 2018 at 4:29am 7.11 lbs of amazingness!!! 😀 As I am writing this she is 16 weeks old and time is flying far…

Molly? (Mole)

 

Born on 26th March 2018 at 4:29am

7.11 lbs of amazingness!!! 😀

As I am writing this she is 16 weeks old and time is flying far too quick. I never realised when people use to tell me to cherish every moment because they are all grown up before you know it, how fast that actually was 😮 !

I am guilty of snapshotting her every day, I have even had to pay for extra iCloud storage 😮 . Scrolling through my camera feed in awe of her forever changing face, she’s leaving the newborn baby look now and becoming more like the babies on the adverts you see on TV. Imagine if adults we aged that quickly? Oh no I hope I don’t.?

 

Her eyes are still blue but slowly changing green/brown. She has a coloboma in her right eye at the front and at the back. The doctor described it bluntly as two holes in her eye. This is developed from the first few weeks of her in my belly. The iris forms in a circle and basically the circle did not close. Mole is under tests for her vision, but as she is so small, we won’t find out how strong her vision is in that eye until she can tell us herself.

Her hair is very light brown and some days she decides to be auburn. Although looking at her now she is pretty bald. Where did all her hair go? It’s okay Mole, Mummy is losing her hair too. Thanks postpartum hair loss.?

Molly has found her voice the past two weeks and spends most of her spare time now gurgling and screaming away. I even heard her laugh for the first time yesterday. IT WAS MY FAVOURITE MOMENT IN LIFE EVER. I frantically scream her Daddy to come upstairs to listen too 😀 .

Molly’s? hobby’s are flying around as an aeroplane, she literally screams with joy and then lets dribble fall out all over me and her dad depending on who is holding her up. She has recently taken an interest in toys now, mainly rattles and textured books. It is so heart warming watching her play.

Her favourite thing in the entire world is a fluffy pink blanket from Aldi. She clings on to it everywhere and sometimes won’t sleep without it. I dread putting it in the wash incase she doesn’t like it anymore once its clean. i’ve convinced myself this, Maybe its a subconscious reason not to add an extra item to the forever over flowing washing basket.

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